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featured piece of advice for creatives and creative leaders
Right now, as I’m typing this week’s newsletter, I have a project that is staring me in the face that makes me insecure. I’m nervous about it. It’s going great and I’m making progress and I’m learning a lot of new things along the way. I know I can get it done and deep down I’m really enjoying it, but it still makes me nervous.
Last week, I played live with some friends, and as we walked on stage for one of the sets I got that overwhelming nervous feeling. Not sure what it feels like to you, but for me, I get a little hot, start sweating a bit, and even shake a little.
I had someone ask me recently if I still get nervous before I play and I said, “Absolutely!”. I’ve literally played live thousands of times, I’ve been in loads of songwriting sessions and recording sessions, I’ve been playing music for over 75% of my life, and I still get a little nervous every time.
Maybe it’s the imposter syndrome that gets us all from time to time. Maybe it’s insecurity when I know I’m in a room full of people better than me (which is a lot!). Maybe it’s the vulnerability of playing my instrument in front of hundreds or thousands of people. Whatever it is…
I’m glad I still get nervous.
There’s a little part of my nerves and insecurity that remind me that what I’m doing is still significant to me. It still matters. I still want to do a great job in every situation I’m in.
Your nerves can mean you’re in situations that are making you better.
Your nerves can mean you’re around people that can make you better.
Your nerves are a good sign that this thing still matters to you.
Nerves are not unprofessional and they aren’t the sign that you’re still a rookie at this. Nerves, at least for me, are a sign to me that I still love this, it matters, I care, it’s significant, and I’m thankful for those nerves.
As much as I hate the nervous feeling of potential failure, it’s necessary in order to experience the wonderful feeling of potential of greatness.
So be nervous.
Now, what if you aren’t nervous? Well, shake it up. Go work with some different people, get in a different environment, take on a job that intimidates you. I’m not just telling you to do something, I’m speaking from experience.
No one does great things comfortably.
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MY⚡️Follows
James Moore
(@jamesmoorewellness) is a massage therapist and wellness coach that posts tips on stretching, dieting, and more. His tips on stretching have come in clutch for me several times because like most creative people I sit in a chair A LOT. Haha!
Creative Explained
(@creative_explained) Armen Adamjan started posting simple tips about household chores, caring for plants, and sustainability and his account exploded. He’s been on the Today show, is followed by millions, and has written several inspiring books filled with his helpful, creative genius.
VSG Entertainment
(@vsgent) posts some of the most incredible and insightful clips of interviews with both legendary and up and coming producers, songwriters, label executives, and more. They give you a real look at the behind-the-scenes truth of the music industry.
MY⚡️Finds
cool stuff I found this week
Highlighters
I’m an avid reader. I usually have about 4-6 books going at once and one of the things that helps me remember and apply what I’m reading is highlighting them. I found these incredible highlighters that don’t bleed through pages and dry quickly. If you read and highlight stuff they are a must have!! Get them HERE!
Case & Wallet
I recently found a new phone case and magnetic wallet that I wanted to share because it’s literally something we use every day. I did a load of research because I don’t change phone cases often. If you’re in the market, these are fantastic. Click HERE for the Phone Case. Click HERE for the magnetic wallet.
MY⚡️Favorites
some of my favorite sights, sounds, and reads
Charger Cables
If you’re like me, you need charger cables for your iPhone that can withstand the rigors of travel. I don’t want to buy a new charging cable every month so I was stoked that I found one that has actually lasted. Now, I’m still on my trusty iPhone 13 Pro so it’s a lighting cable. Get it here in a 3 pack.
Label Maker
Nerd alert!!! I have a label maker that I just love and whenever I post a picture of my pedalboard people always ask how I make my labels. Well, here it is. I have had this thing for years. Get yours HERE.
MY⚡️FI Podcast
a podcast about the journey of creativity
Ep. 041 :: My Favorite Albums of 2023
Join me as I share what albums I loved the most from 2023 and I know that a few are going to surprise you!! I wanted to make sure you knew about all these great records that I loved so ENJOY!!!
MY⚡️FI Blog
monthly blog for creatives and creative leaders
Is Something Holding You Back?
On the blog this month I share a little bit about some simple things that could be keeping you from winning in your creative career. You can also check out some past entries on the phases of creativity and the power of creative clarity. Check it out HERE and share the blog with a friend!